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MICAH MCARTHUR m A common phrase exchanged among college students: "Are we Face book friends yet?" As Facebook and other online social networks increase in popularity, the amount of time spent developing quality real-life rela- tionships decreases. Every minute individuals spend socializing online is one minute they miss actually, physically socializing. From a recent survey of students at Brigham Young University, 62 percent of the students who have a current Facebook account spend four to six hours every week logged in to their account, checking messages and updates or chatting, Nearly 10 percent of the students spend almost 18 hours/week logged in to their account--that's a part-time job. Many admit online social networking is addictive and feel they waste a lot of time online, but few follow through with the initial desire to change. O They enjoy it too much and do not see the danger or the decline of their communication skills as they spend excessive amounts of time staring at a computer screen, "talking with friends. Like other addictions, online social network users act on compulsion. When replaced with genuine, live relationships, the online friendship need dissolves, and one reverts back to the beauty of human relationships. This requires the user to spend time socializing in real life that they may have otherwise spent online. Authentic personal interaction is becoming less common with the advances of technology and the convenience of impersonal communi- cation. Elder David A. Bednar remarked in April this year: "Sadly, some young men and women ignore things as they really are and neglect eternal relationships for digital distractions, diversions and detours that have no lasting value. I am raising a warning voice that we should not squander and damage authentic relationships by obsessing over contrived ones." Many of the students' "Friends" were merely past acquaintances. Sometimes people are motivated to add friends from pity or guilt, rather than genuine interest in friendship. Better yet, some people have friend competitions to compare how many friends they have online. McArthur, Micah. "Are We Facebook Friends Yet?" The Universe. 2 Dec. 2009. Web. 12 Mar. 2011. . Intellectual Reserve, Inc. - 146 - tina Are We Facebook Friends Yet? beco dar In addition, personal information shared online can cause unneces sary problems. There is a certain level of discretion many people have to figure out the hard way when using online social networks. Private issues need not be posted publicly. The one-line updates of thoughts or opinions these networks encourage are nothing more than generic information for the world to see-not the best personal contact or relationship building tool. Another issue we face with a greater attention and interest in online social networking is anonymity-meeting people online who have never met in person before, as well as the being able to say whatever one feels C with disregard for the consequences that would have followed. Online chatting or commenting through Web sites like Twitter, Face book, MySpace and Instant Messenger encourage anonymity, a sort of safety mask protecting the wearer from initial reactions, sarcasm and mis interpretations. Even for shy people, chatting via keyboard will only be a crutch that they will have to learn to live without once they leave the computer-if they leave the computer. There are some friendships that time, distance or personal life cannot dispel. Online social networks can help individuals stay in contact with friends and family that they do not have time or means to communicate with in another way. The benefits of an online network ideally include availability to current information such as a phone number, address, e-mail or at least a means of getting one. Social networks can also pro- vide alternative communication similar to e-mail as well as publication of announcements such as parties, social events and even business informa- tion. The problem arises when users spend excessive time chatting online through these social networks instead of utilizing it as the great resource it could be. Users need to be aware of their purpose in using an online social network. Any excessive behavior can lead to addiction, but if used with discretion and proper awareness of long-term effects, users everywhere can benefit from the social networks found online and also enjoy quality friendships and communication in real life rather than online For the benefit of the future and for the sake of preserving the rich- ness of culture, conversing through online chatting and social networks need to decrease authentic human communication such as quality face- to-face conversations, physical interactions among peers and true, bold, honest self expression needs to increase. MICAH MCARTHUR m A common phrase exchanged among college students: "Are we Face book friends yet?" As Facebook and other online social networks increase in popularity, the amount of time spent developing quality real-life rela- tionships decreases. Every minute individuals spend socializing online is one minute they miss actually, physically socializing. From a recent survey of students at Brigham Young University, 62 percent of the students who have a current Facebook account spend four to six hours every week logged in to their account, checking messages and updates or chatting, Nearly 10 percent of the students spend almost 18 hours/week logged in to their account--that's a part-time job. Many admit online social networking is addictive and feel they waste a lot of time online, but few follow through with the initial desire to change. O They enjoy it too much and do not see the danger or the decline of their communication skills as they spend excessive amounts of time staring at a computer screen, "talking with friends. Like other addictions, online social network users act on compulsion. When replaced with genuine, live relationships, the online friendship need dissolves, and one reverts back to the beauty of human relationships. This requires the user to spend time socializing in real life that they may have otherwise spent online. Authentic personal interaction is becoming less common with the advances of technology and the convenience of impersonal communi- cation. Elder David A. Bednar remarked in April this year: "Sadly, some young men and women ignore things as they really are and neglect eternal relationships for digital distractions, diversions and detours that have no lasting value. I am raising a warning voice that we should not squander and damage authentic relationships by obsessing over contrived ones." Many of the students' "Friends" were merely past acquaintances. Sometimes people are motivated to add friends from pity or guilt, rather than genuine interest in friendship. Better yet, some people have friend competitions to compare how many friends they have online. McArthur, Micah. "Are We Facebook Friends Yet?" The Universe. 2 Dec. 2009. Web. 12 Mar. 2011. . Intellectual Reserve, Inc. - 146 - tina Are We Facebook Friends Yet? beco dar In addition, personal information shared online can cause unneces sary problems. There is a certain level of discretion many people have to figure out the hard way when using online social networks. Private issues need not be posted publicly. The one-line updates of thoughts or opinions these networks encourage are nothing more than generic information for the world to see-not the best personal contact or relationship building tool. Another issue we face with a greater attention and interest in online social networking is anonymity-meeting people online who have never met in person before, as well as the being able to say whatever one feels C with disregard for the consequences that would have followed. Online chatting or commenting through Web sites like Twitter, Face book, MySpace and Instant Messenger encourage anonymity, a sort of safety mask protecting the wearer from initial reactions, sarcasm and mis interpretations. Even for shy people, chatting via keyboard will only be a crutch that they will have to learn to live without once they leave the computer-if they leave the computer. There are some friendships that time, distance or personal life cannot dispel. Online social networks can help individuals stay in contact with friends and family that they do not have time or means to communicate with in another way. The benefits of an online network ideally include availability to current information such as a phone number, address, e-mail or at least a means of getting one. Social networks can also pro- vide alternative communication similar to e-mail as well as publication of announcements such as parties, social events and even business informa- tion. The problem arises when users spend excessive time chatting online through these social networks instead of utilizing it as the great resource it could be. Users need to be aware of their purpose in using an online social network. Any excessive behavior can lead to addiction, but if used with discretion and proper awareness of long-term effects, users everywhere can benefit from the social networks found online and also enjoy quality friendships and communication in real life rather than online For the benefit of the future and for the sake of preserving the rich- ness of culture, conversing through online chatting and social networks need to decrease authentic human communication such as quality face- to-face conversations, physical interactions among peers and true, bold, honest self expression needs to increase