Consider John Allen Lee's styles of love. Which one doyou think you are? What do you think your partner should be to givethat budding relationship a good chance? And when that relationshipreally gets going, and you've got your first fight, how are yougoing to establish a solid foundation for effectivecommunication? What are the warning signs that thisrelationship is about to fail? How do you stop it?
I recommend that you use a single example from your ownexperience, and analyze it from the new point of view you shouldhave developed from reading the chapter. If you cannot think of arelationship (or do not want to talk about an existing one), justimagine one (your chance to imagine your perfect partner if you'dlike, and even here, there will be fights).
